Category Archives: Disclosure/Coming Out

These essays discuss or tackle issues of disclosure of either sexual orientation, gender, or both to other people.

Internalized Heterosexism Kills the Queer Male

Dear gay men who get offended at even the idea of other gay men who bareback &/or do drugs: love yourself & reject your heterosexism, please — Most Mild Misandrist (@FluffyEclectic) May 29, 2015 So started an open letter on … Continue reading

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Singular They: On Judaism, Tumtum, and Inhabiting a Genderqueer Identity

Those that know me in almost any capacity nowadays know and understand that my gender is a confusing topic full of twists and turns and quite a lot of anger at┬ácisgender┬ápeople. I was raised male, using he, him, his pronouns, … Continue reading

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The Myriad Duties of an Ally

Note: If you’d like to skip down to the listed duties of an ally, please do; I’ll make a header that makes it easy to find. Everything before it is an explanation of how I came to feel like a(nother) … Continue reading

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National Coming Out Day

Today (October 11th 2012) was the annual National Coming Out Day. I have mixed feelings about this day. About this holiday. About this celebration of a narrative that leaves so many in the dark, feeling alone and abandoned by those … Continue reading

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